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Thursday, October 11

Turn Facebook Purple

Hello, I have something to ask of everyone out there. I started a cause with facebook to turn it purple for the month of October to Stop the cycle of Domestic Violence.https://www.causes.com/actions/1692135
 I believe by talking about it many more people will seek help or at least know that are worth the effort. No one deserves to be hit for any reason. Please take a stand with me this month and everyday after to be an ear to someone who needs you to listen. Please don't judge them even if you can't understand what they are going through. Instead of telling them what they are doing wrong help them take the step to the phone to call a local shelter to help. Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE

 Please don't let this be an image a child you love sees daily. The sounds of screams coming from the bedroom will last a lifetime in the mind of a child. Please help stop them from becoming an abuser as well. The bruises you see above will fade but the emotional pain will still be deep in your heart. I have left some links at the bottom please help today. Most of all LISTEN you may be a woman's only hope.

http://www.ncadv.org/

http://www.thehotline.org/get-educated/what-is-domestic-violence/

Tuesday, October 9

Airport Show

This past weekend my hubby and I took the boys to an airport show. It was really neat to see some of the military planes. Justin got a kick out of seeing the navy boys jump out of the plane which happens to be the same one my hubby jumped out of. I couldn't help but notice the pure happiness that came over my hubby as he told our son Justin about being in the Marines. He was explaining to him how the planes worked. Justin was even able to sit in the pilot seat which he still talks about today. I'm excited to say I think both my men in my life might take up being a pilot someday. They were able to take a three minute helicopter ride before we left. I think a permanent smile has been place on both of their faces for ever. I love the fact that my hubby takes a huge interest in our boys life. Justin is his little side kick. Anything daddy does Justin does. It's nice to see our son looks up to his father. I wouldn't have it any other way. It makes me extremely happy to see a strong Father and Son bond that can never be broken. They share so much in common and are so much alike it's amazing what a father can do in a child's life. My children will never have to worry about daddy not being their for them. My hubby has always been there for both. Our children are truly his weakness.

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Saturday, October 6

Famous People


Famous people who have been the victim of Domestic Violence
1. Diane lane
2. Bill Clinton
3. Halle Berry
4.  Madonna
5. Mariah Carey
6.  Rihanna      
7. Bobby Brown and Whitney Houston
8. Pamela Anderson
9.  Phil Hartman
10. Tina Turner Tina’s violent marriage with Ike Turner is well known, largely thanks to the film based on her life, What’s Love Got to Do with It. In the film the singer suffered severe beatings, was raped and had cigarettes stubbed out on her body. Her husband Ike is portrayed as a violent, controlling sociopath, and when Tina’s autobiography was published Ike actually admitted that the book was largely accurate. The pair was married for 16 years before Tina had the courage to leave. Ike is now dead.

11. Paris Hilton
12.  Geno Hayes
13.  Humphrey Bogart
14. Chuck Finley
15. Abraham Lincoln
16. Christina Aguilera

Statistics show that over 3 million children witness domestic violence in their homes each year, and those who see and hear domestic violence suffer physically and emotionally. Domestic violence and celebrities is so dangerously out of control, but it is easy to understand why the media focuses on the celeb rather than the issue of violence or the innocent children these celebrities are hurting. Gossip and ratings.

 It doesn’t matter if you are rich, poor, white, black famous or the average Joe blow off the street. This hits homes everywhere in the world. All these people listed above seen it or had a family member who was a victim of Domestic Violence. What you see at home becomes a little part of you. It shapes who you are in a way. Some people have control over what and who they become in life. Other’s let it consume them in the deepest darkest way possible. As a survivor of Domestic Violence from a past relationship it is not easy to get out. The person who is hurting you wants control over you. They feed off of your guilt, pain and anger. They have control and power because you let them. What does love have to do with it? Nothing then again speaking from experience it has a lot to do with it. You didn’t buy the right food. Walked in the house to loud maybe you were late coming home from work. You looked the wrong way. It’s always something in the day and night of a man or woman being abused by a loved one. It’s always your fault you made them do something. This is not right it’s not your fault they are an evil person to the core. It’s not your fault they took a path to be mean to another person. It’s not your fault that they hit you! They will never change. Please speak up if you know someone who is getting abuse.  Please don’t sit there and watch your so called friend put his hands on a woman. Don’t sit in your apartment and listen to your neighborhood beg her husband not to hit her. Don’t stand there on the street when you see a woman hit a man. It’s not right. DO SOMETHING SPEAK UP AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? Only you can make that choice to let it go on. Only you can help stop it. Please listen to someone who makes that choice you are the person they are going to tell. Don't judge them. Don't make them feel any worst then they already do. Please help listen show them the way to be safe.

Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE

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